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Finding Community

Where might I belong now?

Belonging may need to be remade after an inherited community changes or falls away. Begin with friendship, gathering, chosen relationships, mutual care, and the inner work of belonging.

Books in Finding Community

Cover of Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World by Vivek H. Murthy.

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Together: The Healing Power of Human Connection in a Sometimes Lonely World

Vivek H. Murthy

Physician and former U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy connects loneliness and social disconnection with physical health, mental health, workplaces, families, and civic fragmentation. Drawing on research, public-health experience, and stories, he explores attention, service, relationships, community design, and the conditions that help connection grow.

Psychological / AcademicApproachable352 pages

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We Should Get Together

Kat Vellos

A hands-on guide to making and sustaining adult friendships, with prompts and activities that can be tried locally.

Secular / HumanistApproachable

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The Art of Gathering

Priya Parker

Facilitator Priya Parker argues that meaningful gatherings begin with a specific purpose and require intentional choices about invitation, boundaries, authority, conflict, beginnings, and endings. Through examples from meals, meetings, conferences, and civic life, she challenges hosts to stop relying on convention and design around what people are actually gathering to do.

Secular / HumanistApproachable304 pages

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The Other Significant Others

Rhaina Cohen

Reported stories of people who organize life around committed friendships outside the usual hierarchy of romance, marriage, and family.

Secular / Humanist — reported relationship narrativesApproachable320 pages

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In Faith and In Doubt

Dale McGowan

Dale McGowan explores marriages and families in which one partner is religious and the other is not. Drawing on surveys, interviews, and practical examples, he examines respect, identity, rituals, holidays, church participation, extended family, conflict, and raising children without requiring either partner to convert or conceal conviction.

Secular / humanistApproachable288 pages

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When I Spoke in Tongues

Jessica Wilbanks

Memoir of Pentecostal childhood, tongues, loss of belief, family and class tensions, research in Nigeria, and later family reconciliation.

Christian — Pentecostal departure memoirApproachable272 pages

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Mutual Aid

Dean Spade

Organizer and legal scholar Dean Spade presents mutual aid as collective work in which people meet immediate needs while building relationships, political understanding, and the capacity to change the conditions producing those needs. Drawing on abolitionist, disaster-response, queer and trans organizing, he distinguishes participatory solidarity from charity models organized around deservingness, donor control, saviorism, professionalization, or institutional image.

Secular / HumanistApproachable128 pages

Cover of Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home by Toko-pa Turner.

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Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home

Toko-pa Turner

Turner draws on memoir, dreamwork, myth, and depth psychology to consider estrangement and the patient work of belonging to oneself and others.

Psychological / AcademicModerate245 pages